Fix port conflicts and standardize service configurations

- Resolve port conflicts: TasmoAdmin (8084), Form.io (3002), Gitea (3010)
- Add missing Authelia SSO and Sablier lazy loading to utilities stack
- Standardize Form.io labels to match TRAEFIK CONFIGURATION guidelines
- Reorganize ports-in-use.md with stack-based table and proper column order
- Remove Dokuwiki deployment from ez-homelab.sh (already in productivity stack)
- Update service restart policies for lazy loading compatibility

docker-compose/monitoring/docker-compose.yml

@@ -34,7 +34,6 @@ services:
     container_name: prometheus
     restart: unless-stopped
     networks:
-      - homelab-network
       - homelab-network
       - traefik-network
     ports:
@@ -83,7 +82,6 @@ services:
     container_name: grafana
     restart: unless-stopped
     networks:
-      - homelab-network
       - homelab-network
       - traefik-network
     ports:
@@ -146,7 +144,6 @@ services:
     container_name: cadvisor
     restart: unless-stopped
     networks:
-      - homelab-network
       - homelab-network
       - traefik-network
     ports:
@@ -193,7 +190,6 @@ services:
     container_name: uptime-kuma
     restart: unless-stopped
     networks:
-      - homelab-network
       - homelab-network
       - traefik-network
     ports:
@@ -234,7 +230,6 @@ services:
     container_name: loki
     restart: unless-stopped
     networks:
-      - homelab-network
       - homelab-network
       - traefik-network
     ports: