Fix port conflicts and standardize service configurations

- Resolve port conflicts: TasmoAdmin (8084), Form.io (3002), Gitea (3010)
- Add missing Authelia SSO and Sablier lazy loading to utilities stack
- Standardize Form.io labels to match TRAEFIK CONFIGURATION guidelines
- Reorganize ports-in-use.md with stack-based table and proper column order
- Remove Dokuwiki deployment from ez-homelab.sh (already in productivity stack)
- Update service restart policies for lazy loading compatibility

docker-compose/media/docker-compose.yml

@@ -33,7 +33,6 @@ services:
     container_name: jellyfin
     restart: no
     networks:
-      - homelab-network
       - homelab-network
       - traefik-network
     ports:
@@ -91,7 +90,6 @@ services:
     container_name: calibre-web
     restart: unless-stopped
     networks:
-      - homelab-network
       - homelab-network
       - traefik-network
     ports: