Fix port conflicts and standardize service configurations

- Resolve port conflicts: TasmoAdmin (8084), Form.io (3002), Gitea (3010)
- Add missing Authelia SSO and Sablier lazy loading to utilities stack
- Standardize Form.io labels to match TRAEFIK CONFIGURATION guidelines
- Reorganize ports-in-use.md with stack-based table and proper column order
- Remove Dokuwiki deployment from ez-homelab.sh (already in productivity stack)
- Update service restart policies for lazy loading compatibility

docker-compose/homeassistant/docker-compose.yml

@@ -92,7 +92,7 @@ services:
       - homelab-network
       - traefik-network
     ports:
-      - "80:80"
+      - "8084:80"
     volumes:
       - /opt/stacks/tasmoadmin/data:/data
     environment:
@@ -111,7 +111,7 @@ services:
       - "traefik.http.routers.tasmoadmin.entrypoints=websecure"
       - "traefik.http.routers.tasmoadmin.tls.certresolver=letsencrypt"
       - "traefik.http.routers.tasmoadmin.middlewares=authelia@docker"
-      - "traefik.http.services.tasmoadmin.loadbalancer.server.port=80"
+      - "traefik.http.services.tasmoadmin.loadbalancer.server.port=8084"
 
   # MotionEye - Video surveillance
   # Access at: https://motioneye.${DOMAIN}