Fix port conflicts and standardize service configurations

- Resolve port conflicts: TasmoAdmin (8084), Form.io (3002), Gitea (3010)
- Add missing Authelia SSO and Sablier lazy loading to utilities stack
- Standardize Form.io labels to match TRAEFIK CONFIGURATION guidelines
- Reorganize ports-in-use.md with stack-based table and proper column order
- Remove Dokuwiki deployment from ez-homelab.sh (already in productivity stack)
- Update service restart policies for lazy loading compatibility

docker-compose/dashboards/docker-compose.yml

@@ -26,7 +26,7 @@ services:
       - homelab-network
       - traefik-network
     ports:
-      - "3000:3000"
+      - "3003:3000"
     volumes:
       - ./homepage:/app/config
       - /var/run/docker.sock:/var/run/docker.sock # For Docker integration do not mount RO
@@ -50,7 +50,7 @@ services:
       - "traefik.http.routers.homepage.entrypoints=websecure"
       - "traefik.http.routers.homepage.tls=true"
       - "traefik.http.routers.homepage.middlewares=authelia@docker"
-      - "traefik.http.services.homepage.loadbalancer.server.port=3000"
+      - "traefik.http.services.homepage.loadbalancer.server.port=3003"
       # Sablier lazy loading (disabled by default - uncomment to enable)
       # - "sablier.enable=true"
       # - "sablier.group=${SERVER_HOSTNAME}-homarr"